If it does not have a screenshot, some solid proof, or picture to along with it you can forget about me giving it the time of day. I have not only been lead to believe someone was lying about a illness, but I have hurt someone in the process. I do not feel good about it and hell I feel like scum. Yazzie you have every right to despise, hate me, so on. That's what I get for taking someone word and not investigating or bettet yet taking your word. If it wasn't for Cat, Em and AE saying they would be pissed if I deleted my blog, I would delete it. I feel so fucking stupid right now! I'm about this close to going nuclear on everyone who fed Em this shit. I don't even know if I post anything tomorrow, because I'm so pissed and embarrassed!
I am beyond sorry Yazzie! I heard of this and became concern! I'm truly beside myself right now with regret! I'm just so very sorry I ever posted anything or said anything.
Agree 100%, and we can go nuclear together Vid. Cuz either way ya look at it, we were lied to. I feel just as sorry, pissed and embarrassed.
ReplyDeleteAnd damn right I'll be pissed if ya delete your blog. I'll hunt ya down and drag ya back. *shakes fist*
Vid, I like you! Have nothing against you. This whole thing upsets me. I do know that JK would never lie about something. she went to Em b/c she wanted to know what happened, to get the story straight, because you see Em what she told us is a different story from what you are saying.In fact Chris thought I was you and asked why I made her cry and kinda bullied me. Jk never asked Em to blog about it,but gave Em permission as was requested, that was your choice Em. JK was just trying to get answers to things that didn't make sense. She did e-mail Yaz and nothing was solved that way. Again, I think personal matters really shouldn't be blogged about...look what happens, people get hurt. I have made this mistake myself.
ReplyDeleteViddie,don't be mad.We all have the times in our lives when we believe something that isn't true,we're lied too,and then embarrassed.It happens.You just need to let it slide.Remember,as long as you have life,everything else can go away for awhile.If you're dead....Ima be scared.Not the best time for jokes,aeh?Sorry,trying to lighten the mood.I'm along with the the others,if you delete your blog,it will be out of reason and you may be slammed more,and I don't want that to happen to you.You're a good person Vid,no need to find shame in mistakes,only wise words.
ReplyDelete"Viddie,don't be mad.We all have the times in our lives when we believe something that isn't true,we're lied too,and then embarrassed.It happens.You just need to let it slide.Remember,as long as you have life,everything else can go away for awhile.If you're dead....Ima be scared.Not the best time for jokes,aeh?Sorry,trying to lighten the mood.I'm along with the the others,if you delete your blog,it will be out of reason and you may be slammed more,and I don't want that to happen to you.You're a good person Vid,no need to find shame in mistakes,only wise words."
ReplyDeleteAgreed :) Overall, I am glad this happened, it is a good learning experience. Always give people a second chance :)
I feel ya, Vid.
ReplyDeleteAs for whether people or lying, it's not as much of an issue as simply taking care of your own problems instead of involving other people in drama.
JK had ample opportunity to fix the problem she had, but instead decided to come to LE and get her involved. Sorry, piss-poor judgment on her part, and that's merely my opinion. We're certainly all guilty of piss-poor judgment.
As for personal matters being blogged about, that's the blogger's decision. If Vid, if LE, if I, if Yazzie, or you, or JK wants to blog about something, we're free to do it and to anyone who disagrees, they are s.o.l.
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ReplyDeleteI deleted my post because it didn't make sense.
ReplyDeleteBut basically it said, that no one hates you Vid. We'd all be sad to see your blog go and you go. You'd be missed for sure.
As for the rest of this, I am just sick over it and it's just so so sad that this happened.
I know it was my choice Sun. I was upset and concerned for my friends and felt they had a right to know. But here's the thing. I was also willing to wait. JKA could have said, wait, she could have said don't blog it. Instead she chose to give permission.
ReplyDeleteIf you were bullied by Chris, well you are a grown up not a little kid. The first time would be the last time.
Definitely piss-poor judgement on my part to get involved. Not a mistake I will be making again.
Yes, we could have all waited until there was more information. JK was trying to take care of it by finding out more info b/f she blogged about it and since you had been close to Yaz at one time she decided to talk to you, which probably wasn't an easy matter.You made a poor judgement because you were upset. Some new info about Chris came to light yesterday that neither JK or I knew about, this upset JK and she was very shaken up and angy.JK made a poor judgement because she was upset about her friends being hurt, just like you. So why does she take the full rap of this?.You said it yourself, you blogging about it was a mistake, take some blame of it Em. There are many people involved and to blame, I for one of them. Nobody questioned whether Yaz has certian illnesses, just if some of it is embelished. Several people drew conclusions about her without ever talking to each other and one day it came to light. Why would so many people have the same questions?
ReplyDeleteI just don't want JK to take full blame for all this when she shouldn't. Doing the same thing you would do for a friend.
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ReplyDeleteWell I've about quit. I don't care anymore and nothing is going make me feel better about this. I'm tired all the stress and drama that comes with this blog. I bring it on myself I guess. This blog is a curse sometimes. I'm sorry, but I'm really quite tired of it all.
ReplyDeleteAnd will not delete it for now, but I'm abandoning it.
Via cell
To add i feel like Jarsie right now and I am very serious this time. I woke up this morning and thought I quit. I don't have guts or drive to continue. I'm sorry.
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Running away won't help with it though Vid. If you don't like the stress and drama that comes with it, then don't respond to what you hear by making a very public blog post. I know it's your blog and you can do what you want with it [and I'm not implying that you shouldn't] but if you hate negative responses then don't post things that could poitentionally hurt people or start a feud!
ReplyDeleteObviously there isn't going to be a place that you are in your life [talking about everyone here] where there isn't drama and stress. Life wouldn't be life without those two things! If your not happy, change it, it won't be handed to you on a dish so be prepared to work for it.
Life's tough, it'll give you both emotional and physical scars, but it shows that you *survived*.
Now, leave your blog if you want to. But if you leave now with un-solved problems, they'll still be here when you get back. You won't feel better until this gets solved, trust me.
So, stay and face your problem, or put it in the closet for later. Your choice.
I agree with Miracle Vid. We need to take responsibility. Bad call on our parts.
ReplyDeleteAnd Sun, perhaps ya should read what I write. I AM accepting responsibility and the ramifications of my post. I stated as much in my retraction. I'm not running from it. I am owning up for MY mistake in the matter and apologized to Yazzie for it.
Oh and don't feel like Jarsie. I've yet to see her apologize or own up for anything. That sets up apart from her.
ReplyDeletehey Vid, I am just stopping in, in hopes to find you in better spirits today.
ReplyDeleteThis whole thing is just awful. It's sad and horrible. And whilst i didn't see what you or Em originally posted, I don't believe anyone set out to cause harm.
Sadly, harm happened but I believe that those who did cause harm are sorry.
I understand you want to take your blog down, believe me,i understand that, but Miracal is correct, if you leave it now, the issues is still there.
I honestly don't think anyone hates you or that you need to run away. But if your blog comes down, no one would respect you less for it, we'd all understand that a blog makes you feel exposed and raw and tired sometimes.
We just hope you wont stop blogging. You have a lot to offer.
I hate saying this again, but so far I'm not going anywhere. I just read the most digusting blog post and they have to kill me to send me away. Over my cold dead body!
ReplyDeleteAnd thank you to those who commented. I'm more worry about what I've done to Yazzie more than anything. I will probably apologize again. I'm still pretty upset about what I've done.
ReplyDeleteYay Vid. And ignore the post. Not worth it Vid!
ReplyDeleteJust remember, you are not alone. I did worst, and I am right there with you sharing the blame Vid. So at least you'll have good company.
I'd honestly shut the comments off, Vid. If you don't want to deal with it, you certainly don't have to. Don't leave the blog though, just turn the comments off and tell people to shove off.
ReplyDeleteWhat happened here!? You really miss something when you have a science project >:/
ReplyDeleteAnywho, I'm not positive on what was going on but I don't think anyone hates you, it takes a lot to hate someone and we all make mistakes in our lives, like I said, I'm not sure what happened but remember that we don't hate you!
:( So don't fret
ok, comments off and they will be off for the next one.
ReplyDeleteEverything else will be comments on, because I do have the delete button.
Paco, mare will inform you. *hugs*
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