Wednesday, June 13, 2012

So who are the bullies now? (rant)

I'm going make this very general with no names mention. I've read some infuriating things of recent and I'm finding it extremely hard not to give you my two cent after reading something today. Well today I decided that I can't hold it in any longer. Foul language included, but very little.


I'm so sick of people bashing other people over a blog! I'm sick of people thinking it's ok to reply to that blog in nasty and extreme ways. Like really? What are you accomplishing? How does making anti Mares sites and attacking people, make you feel better? I certainly don't see Mares curling up in a ball, because you were mean to them. All I see is the people in the crossfire getting hurt. People I call friends. Good people who don't deserve any of it. We are not in high school! This isn't Simming High! Some of you too damn old to be getting angry over a blog! Then it's some of you who need to cut the damn computer off, because you're too idiotic to handle the Internet. Seriously grow up! Stop trying to make it a war.

I honestly don't take issue with anti-Mare people too much. It's what they do, that makes them look like a bunch obnoxious idiots. People who make negative post and threads about them almost always get opposite of what they looking for. Then when they make a blog, it's almost always full of ignorance and hate. If some of these anti-Mare bloggers would take time to make an decent and intelligent blog, maybe they would actually get readers and credibility. I have never seen an intelligent well thought out anti-mares blog in the all years I've been involved in this community. Maybe one, but they usually die off in oblivion. The rest are always full of crap and disturbing obsessive post. I almost find it disturbing people make blogs centered around people they don't even like. How about make a news blog shinning the positive light on mares post you don't agree with if you must? How about not reading the blog all together or using criticism to better yourself and your actions. I never see anything positive coming from these people.

As for Mares, they have been posting their opinions since 2009. If people took time to laugh at themselves and not take every damn thing they say seriously, a lot people might find humor in them or at least get over it faster. They are just like any other blogger with the exception of trolls stalking them everyday. I honestly feel sorry for them sometimes, because I can imagine the pressure they must go through having their blog post picked apart and twisted every f'ing day. Then when they do something good, nobody has shit to say about it. Where are you people when Mares is giving info out on the dangerous trolls?

Overall, t's really not that serious. It's not worth hurting others either. Sure you're feeling were hurt, but how are you any better calling people out their names in secret or making fun of people? Tell me how does help anything? Before you worry about some body's else opinion, maybe you should worry about yourself and the people you've hurt in the process. No one is bullying you, when you're the bullies yourselves. I'm really disappointed in some of you.

21 comments:

  1. Well said. I saw what you saw and made a post about it as well. It's absolutely ridiculous that someone does this with their free time.

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    1. Someone has a little too much free time. xD Does she really think she's getting somewhere with that blog?! She too damn old to be that stupid.

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  2. Thank you for your kind words on my blog, Vid.

    I find it so disturbing that all the problems I end up involved in are instigated not by immature children or teenagers, but adults. Adults that then proceed to involve children in their maliciousness, encouraging them to join in. Adults that surely should know better?

    I really don't see why everyone can't just get over TMN. These people are obsessed with getting their 15 seconds of fame by insulting TMN, as well as other people. They only end up turning people against themselves.

    Like I said in my original post that made this simmer so angry, in my opinion those writing anti-TMN blogs need lives just as much as TMN. If not more so.

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    1. Yep I'm always shock to find out adults are acting like this. I just always assume it's bratty kids. Sad isn't it?

      People really do make themselves look stupid.

      And you're welcome Caturae. Again sorry for your lost. :( *hugs*

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  3. You must understand that Mares do say offensive things about other people, right? lol And in the event that they are not, their superior intellect would suggest that some unfortunate misunderstandings would take place, making people think they are being slandered or made fun of, when in fact they are merely passing judgement. But that is what Mares does, isn't it, passes judgement. There is always SOMEONE that will take offense to it, Vid. You must understand this, right?

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    1. So a mother of a 13 year old is justified in making a blog that not only attacks them, but attacks innocent people if they don't pick sides?

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    2. I am not defending them, I think it's all ridiculous, I'm just surprised Vid even mentioned it, it's as though she's surprised, but obviously not lol

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    3. I only decided to make this post, because I was upset for a person I consider a friend and was upset to see people I thought were somewhat decent act like cowards.

      And I have no idea why you would be surprised. It's been awhile since I've made a post like this, but I've never been afraid to express my opinion. I did decide to not let my blog be filled with drama, but I never promise to stop talking about issues I felt stong about.

      And I am surprise. Adults acting like children don't make sense to me no matter how many times this happen. lol

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    4. And to add this on top of what happen the other day, I felt things were getting out of hand. People are being really stupid and nasty towards others for a blog FFS. If making this post seems ridiculous than so be it. I had to say something.

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    5. It's not ridiculous that you made this post, I meant that people attacking Mares Nest is ridiculous lol I should just stop commenting, my English is bad XD

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    6. Oooo ok. lol Sorry. That's ok. You confused me and it being late doesn't help. xP

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  4. Of course I understand. My post was mostly aim at the people who have unhealthy obsession of mares. So much so they look like villians themselves. I was basically saying that just becuz a blog like Mares bashes you, doesn't mean you have to attack people who may read them or have been posted about it a postive light.

    And I've offended a few people I'm sure, but I can at least say no one has gone as far as some of the people who stalk and hate Mares.

    We may not always agree with what people post, but it doesn't give people the right to harass and bait people for no good reason.

    In Caturae case which really inspired this post, the person who made a blog post about her had no real reason to post about her and simply did it because she didn't take sides against Mares at the time. That is when I take issue to this subject. People tend to take it too far. :/

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    1. I also was referencing the Jarise thing with Simmering Sims, which was also unacceptable.

      Sure people take offense to Mares, but don't drag other people into your negativity and hard feelings for them.

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  5. I agree Vid, attacking others about their stance on a particular issue is just petty. It has gone too far.

    Too many people don't like being called on their bad behaviour. TMN aren't perfect but they target the behaviour, not the person. And they take the time to find the evidence to back up what they say. It's easy enough to check around for yourself to work out if you agree with their view (I don't always but I accept that it is their opinion).

    The anti-TMN stuff I've seen is usually making some derogatory comment about them personally. Not much of a response really.

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  6. Yeah I notice the anti mares stuff being like that too. People might actually change their minds or take their opinions in consideration if they could write up something decent. It's always full of expletives and personal attacks. I have yet to see an decent anti mares blog or post and most the time they prove Mares's point.

    I don't agree with them all the time, but a lot people really don't help themselves look any better these days.

    Attacking people for their stance on a subject is just low tho. It's not that serious. Nobody opinions are worth the obession or anger that I've seen. Not even Mares deserves some of the crap I've seen on blogs and post on the forums. It's amazing how much their opinion matters now.

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  7. I just went through the blogs and made my own post as well. . .quite frankly, I'm all for having an opinion and posting it if I so choose, but not to the point of obsession.

    Seeing the crap being spewed in these particular blogs paints that person in a bad light, pulling a Mr. Hyde. It's laughable that people are still getting so hung up on what the Mares post. They say they hate/dislike them, but are the first to cry fowl when something they don't like is posted about them.

    It's kinda like one of those "They love to hate them and can't get enough of them" type deals.

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  8. I read a very well written blog by a guy about a year or two ago that was anti-mare but he didn't drag people into it or just tear people apart. It did fall into oblivion which is a shame. I wish there were more blogs that didn't just sit and shit talk all day. Opinions are good and interesting to read but not "f you and f that" that's just stupid. So I agree with your post.

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    1. I'm actually quite surprise you agree. I think I saw that blog and even though I don't agree with those type of blogs, I thought it was well written.

      But I do think people are allowed to express their opinions with curse words if they want. It's when they make negative blog attacking people personally with no real substance or reason is when I think they being rude and unnecessary.

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  9. LOL I ramble on a lot didn't I. Well I rarely make post like this now. Oh well...hopefully a happy post tomorrow. :)

    Since you guys are being nice I'll leave comments on, but don't be naughty while I'm sleep. ;)

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  10. Good post.

    Personal attacks is a sign of ignorance and I saw a lot of ignorance in that blog.

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